Hanoi (VNA)- A recent survey has found that 68 percent of children between the ages of oneand 14 had been on the receiving end of violence at the hands of their parentsand relatives.
The results were released at a dialogue organised by the Management andSustainable Development Institute (MSD) on December 13 in Hanoi, with more than150 participants.
The event called for co-operation among organisations to eliminate physical andpsychological abuse against children.
The national children protection hotline 111 has received three million callsfor help in the past 14 years.
Ninh Thi Hong, permanent deputy chairwoman of the Vietnam Association for theProtection of Children’s Rights, said all violence had serious consequences onchild development.
Many reasons led to the problem, she said.
Many Vietnamese parents believe in the mantra “spare the rod and spoil thechild”.
Adults also have too many expectations for the children, and turn to violencewhen they are not lived up to.
Speaking at the dialogue, Le Tran Kim Linh, a girl from HCM City, said:“Teachers and parents often do not understand or believe in children.”
Linh and other children at the dialogue believed that children do not developwith violence, plus physical and psychological abuse against children isillegal.
“Please talk to us to help us solve our problems and educate children withlove,” said Linh.
Nguyen Thi Nga, deputy director of the Child Affairs Department under theMinistry of Labour, Invalids and Social Affairs, said she was really impressedwith the children’s messages.
“Listening to children and understanding them is important,” she said.
All the messages delivered by the children’s would be used by lawmakers to setup child support programmes, she said.
Nguyen Phuong Linh, MSD director, said, “We should use positivity to educateour children so they are loved by their families and teachers.”
“With love, children become self-confident and develop comprehensively,” shesaid./.